Close Relationships Sometime Mask Poor Communication

Running head: Close Relationships Sometime Mask Poor Communication

(name)

Com200: Interpersonal Communication

Instructor:

The article was an eye open but I was not surprise at all I think most married people get so close that they think they know each other in and out then the communication stops they think they can read each others minds and the other should know what the other want and need and in the long run that cause problems in the relationship.

Most people are still learning how to communication that way it is so many problems with communication with love ones they think they really know that person but people change everyday and that’s wear the misunderstanding come in most people I believe that we do communication better with some one that we don’t know. It was some rueful in the article but also I disagree with some things that was said.

According to Savitsky that’s what am saying in the begun of my paper some couple get so comfort with each other they lose sight on what is really important in there relationship and that is keeping communication open at all times it’s good for the sole.

I think men plays a big part in communication with there other half they will talk to their friends about what is going on or how they feel but will not tell it to there other half men don’t talk about what is going on with them they really not going to talk about a doctor appointment and the bills they live that all up to the other half and it been like that sense I was a child and much has not changed in my eyes.

It just always sense that it was a job and that it was the woman job in every household mom cooked and cleaned and played the bills daddy worked and brought the check home and made sure the children was going what they were supposed to be doing daddy communication mare with his children they is wife if mommy was feeling bad the only way daddy will know if one of the children told him if daddy was feeling bad on one would never know it sense like it was some type of communication barrier there at all times or mommy just knew daddy needs as I look back it was crazy and still is in to days world with people that have been together for long periods of time am talking 10 to 50 years of marriage.

I have encountered a miscommunication with my daughter because I assumed she understood me what happen was I called her and ask her to raid down town with me I had to go pay a ticket so that met she had to stay in the car and ride around tell I was done because it cost to much to park and at the time I didn’t have money for parking that’s way I need her to go with me when I came out of that place she was so mad at me.

I ask her what was wrong she said it was no wear to park I said that’s way I brought you with me cause I know it will be no wear to park and I don’t have money she hatred my feeling so bad just the way she looked at me I told her later how she made me feel she app to me but it still was not ok cause how can you get so mad about something so small and we didn’t speak for a couple of days.

How I can make sure this kind of miscommunication never happen in the future I will make my self very clear of what I need her to do for me and ask her if she would mane riding a rounding because I don’t have money to pay for parking and let her know that it may take awhile and make sure she is ok with it before we proceed.

It will never happen to me again not with my daughter any way I will stay clear in my communication skills keep it open at all times.

Reference:

Proquest Articles: Close Relationships Sometimes Mask Poor Communication

(2011 January). US News and world report,1 retrive from abi in form Global. Document ID: 2270370591

Sole, K (2011) Making Connections: Understanding Interpersonal Communication. San Diego, CA: Bridgepoint Education, Inc.(https://content .ashford.edu)